The Things in life.

It seems to be that throughout life people are constantly forced to act and behave in a certain ways. Why is it that we often feel compelled to satisfy other peoples opinions of how our lives should be ran? Why is it we neglect our own needs, desires, and beliefs to make others happy?

Is it that we feel that we will not be accepted, or liked by our fellow man/woman?
Is it that we are thought to develop these inhibitions through T.V., media, and our families throughout life?
Or, is it that we let ourselves be overpowered, out maneuvered, or otherwise hoodwinked?

It is my thought that we need to learn to focus on building a strong foundation in ourselves before conceding to others. That we need to be right within ourselves, so that we do not fall victim to others tasks. If your plate is full, why would you pile more on. If what you are doing feels right to you, and is right. What difference does it make what order you go in.

Often times, we would rather spend are energies on others, yet we live in constant angst, and frustration. I am not preaching that we need to think only of ourselves first. However, I think to fully be able to lend our hearts and hands for someone else's behalf, we need to make sure that our needs are met. Be it, mental, emotional, physical, or psychological.

To have a "HAPPY", and "COMPLETE" life, we need to make sure that we service God, Ourselves, and our Family, before we overly concern ourselves with others beliefs on how we should run our lives.

Remember you are the one who is going to be with you your whole life. No one else. Make sure the life your living is the life you want. I have met many millionaires that are depressed, and many very happy and content labor workers. If money made your life better. This would not be the case.

God bless,
Thank you